Monday, October 23, 2006

3rd Lesson Learnt
*Always double confirm your date*

Yup, first time in SIM, i finally skipped a lesson. It's not really that rebellious kinda of attitude that i purposely skipped it. My friend suppose to pick up to school today, didn't tell me that he's not going to school despite i msned him last night.

Time Taken to School: 45mins
Lesson Starts: 9am
I waited til: 8.25am
Results ------------> CONFIRM LATE!!!! JIALET JIALET!!!!!

Today it is on a new topic, can't afford to be lagging behind again. Therefore i need to crash either on thursday morning, Friday or Saturday lessons!!!.....


4th Lesson Learnt
*Never repeat your mistake*

after the morning incident, yup, i went back home.... and slot my keys into the bicycle's brake, it's drop into the bottom of the lift. MY LIFE HIT ROCK BOTTOM, arghz, the worse thing had happened to me was my student royce, let me wait for 30mins for his tuition... (I think I need to reinforce my disciplinary actions towards them) so more or less, next time i going to call him first before i go his house.

Tuesday, October 17, 2006

(1st lesson learnt)
*think before you speak*


aight.. today i jus sms-ed one of my friends to sort of take back my $25 from him in the morning after my sch chalet was cancelled. well, he replied me with a sms saying "Hai, okok, are you poor?" wah..i feel that's harsh word.. i told him that i wanna give my fren a better angbao for her wedding and besides it's my $$$ wat..park at ur bank account for wat? ...


i koe he will return one day but i just feel nothing to wrong to ask back wat? he said that he's dun have the time to do UN-NECESSARY things.. due to his work commitment and furthermore that i smsed him in the morning ask him for $$, kinda make his day "bad"... but i humble myself and apologised to him about my actions...(i tot sms pple in the morning is the most efficient timing?)

anyway to cut the story, he told me to go to his house personally to collect it. (i tot bank transfer will be a faster and convenient choice?) in the end, i told him that his remark was abit harsh..so he apologise to me and he told me that he's under stress.. .. then i realise something that i did once to one of my studs "sher" haha.. i guess we muz control our emotions!!


well jus like the bible says..it's really coming back to me ya? haa.. but of course, i apologised to my stud le..!!

Luke 6:37-39 (New Living Translation) "Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn others, or it will all come back against you. Forgive others, and you will be forgiven. Give, and you will receive. Your gift will return to you in full—pressed down, shaken together to make room for more, running over, and poured into your lap. The amount you give will determine the amount you get back."

Proverbs 10:19 (New King James Version)
In the multitude of words sin is not lacking, But he who restrains his lips is wise.

yuppz.. well i believe that i shld really think before i said anything, for example our MM Lee, recently had "apologise" to our neighbouring muslim countries... becoz of the chinese marginalize issues that causes some misunderstanding in our neighbourhood muslim countries....therefore "But he who restrains his lips is wise" this is darn true...




(2nd lesson learnt)
*Love is subjective*


yup, finally the truth is out, Ms Elle is dating, i starting to love sociology, it's boiled down to definition of the socially constructed interpretation of meaning from the perspective of every different individual.. wat's the definition of dating mean to you? well for me, if i go dating with an opposite ALONE = i like that particular person;

actually i sms-ed miss elle at nite, wanna to chat with her.. but she's declined as she said she nt convenient to talk.. haa.. well being a gentleman, of course i reply with a okie.. then the usual it's alrite and gdnite stuffs.. well, i am kinda suprised tat she ask me am i alrite and stuffs... blah blah blah.. asked me whether am i sure that she's no nd to call back... anyway to cut the story short...

the next day, we mit up for lunch.. haha.. we talk and she told me that she was at her "guy" friend's grandma bday party.. wooohhhoooo, then i realise, is she dating then? i didn't get disappointed, i just feel that is it true that all girls are like that? maybe i am sensitive but i feel that some gals are really too friendly for my own comfort.. to mislead me.. haa.. well..somemore she know that i wanan date her..

yeah probably if i koe someone and i dun like him, i wont chat with him at late night, sms always with ended with smilely.. and share some personal stuffs .. coz all the more, he might be thinking otherwise.. haa... yupz.. she's the 2nd gal who making me go round & round..

i am nt sad or disappointed.. but i think this really change my mindset.. next time I wait for a gal to open her golden mouth and confirm her intentions to me b4 i do any actions of dating her.. otherwise i look like a lovefool again.. hee!! =)